Saying Goodbye

Brain: It's finally over. We concluded it. Come on girls stop doing this to us. You where doing so well moving on. Don't let him drag you back down into the uncontrolled spiral.
Heart: I know, sorry Brain, it still aches but I know we must, we need to move on. This pattern is ripping me into pieces.
Brain: I'm sorry I allowed further contact. I honestly thought he would go away. I felt your sadness Heart, when he talked about his depression. But we both need to be strong. Lady Parts is even behaving.
Lady Parts: mmmm ignoring wet knickers, ignoring urges, He has been the only one ever to make me feel this way, but we are a team and I will not fall and bend like I did last time that got us all in the mess we are in. It's my fault....
Heart: No LadyParts it is all 'our' fault. Even you Brain, with your look of despair. We are all broken and need mending and healing.We will take full responsibility of our recent predicament together. We are a team. We will work through this together.
Brain: Yes he needs to fall by himself, as our councillor said we can no longer rescue him. He needs to hit rock bottom and we are just enablers stopping that occurring. No longer can we help him with our comfort or offers to help. We need to watch from afar and keep our distance.
Heart: It's going to hurt, but yes I know we must allow ourselves to grow apart from him. We need to heal and we can't with him calling us back. Even if he want's to be 'friends' we tried this and it hurt me too much.
Lady Parts: well you know me girls, keep my toys charged up and I'll be happy for awhile. (in a more quiet and thoughtful voice) and I know I can't let you guys down again when it comes to him.